This unhealthy obsession that some Africans have with
genitalia and sex should be studied. In 2014 alone the number of vocal,
verbally abusive, obnoxious and sexually graphic rants by some leaders on the
continent led by non-other than H.E. Robert Mugabe himself makes one wonder if
gay sex are really a matter of national and continental attention.
First of all, they routinely speak verbosely about gay SEX.
Yes, sex, not necessarily the human rights and privileges as citizens that gay
people are entitled to already by law. The pervasive argument thus is that if
one engages in SEX in a particular manner then that person should not enjoy
constitutional rights. The idea that one’s right to life and freedom is hinged
on who he or she has sex with can make any reasonable person’s head spin. But
the fact that these leaders proceed to criminalize certain sexual orientations
based on this illogical and unlawful preposition is quite simply a sign of
severe mental illness.
Now, Robert Mugabe is 90 years old. His utterances could
easily be construed to be the onset of senility. But we have much younger leaders
spewing the very same sort of hate speech. Let’s be quite honest, there is no
way to lawfully prosecute and incarcerate a person based on how they had sex.
Where is the evidence, for starters?
So these countries that have chosen to criminalize “gayism” as
they call it, have quite simply decided to conduct arbitrary arrests, detention
without trial, illegal convictions, beatings and arrests on whomever they
choose to do so, so long as they can simply label you “Gay.”
We have reached a point in this continent where it’s now a
normal acceptable thing for politicians to get up and discuss publicly the
sexual proclivities that they are fantasizing about. Its fantasy based
analogies on the sexual exploits of gay people because of course the same
people spewing hate speech against homosexuals claim that they are
heterosexual. It’s a bizarre claim to make, seeing as nobody doubted or was
curious about their sexuality nor was interested.
More revealing though is the underlying clear neurosis that
these people have. According to Sigmund Freud “The genital stage” in
psychoanalysis describes the final stage of human psychosexual development.
Freud proposed that if a child experienced sexual frustration in relation to
any psychosexual developmental stage, they would experience anxiety that
persists into adulthood as a neurosis, a functional mental disorder.
(Wikipedia)
This sort of neurosis is exhibited by frigidity, impotence,
unsatisfactory relationships – and I think we should add here the tendency to
publicly announce your own narrow minded infatuations with genitals and what
grownups do in their bedrooms.
The ability to accept that other people’s sex lives have
nothing entirely to do with him surely is not too much to ask from an adult. It
isn’t too much to ask that Heads of State focus on state matters and not sex. We
aren’t demanding too much by requesting that legislators concern themselves
with policy that entrenches constitutional rights and not laws that criminalize
sex positions or partnerships.
The truth is, the discussion on gay rights has automatically
been sexualized and infantilized by leadership that is quite infantile
themselves and sexually immature. It’s insulting to the entire continent by the
way, to declare one’s utter lack of sexual maturity as “African”. A person who
is so focused on genitalia and fantasizes publicly about sexual positions,
partners and exploits is just mentally ill, and that mental illness is not an
African Cultural trait.
It’s certainly offensive that pornographic utterances are allowed to be broadcasted as “news” simply because the “Newsmaker” is having a public mental fit. Some go into such graphic details that they even touch their own body parts while making these disgusting statements – surely!
It’s certainly offensive that pornographic utterances are allowed to be broadcasted as “news” simply because the “Newsmaker” is having a public mental fit. Some go into such graphic details that they even touch their own body parts while making these disgusting statements – surely!
Instead of allowing someone with deeply rooted insanity
ascribe his delusions to our culture, why not seek medical help for these
people? If “gayism” is unnatural, what then shall we call a person who speaks
so profusely about it and in such an explicit manner? Sub-natural is a word that comes to mind.
Not to be left behind, Maendeleo ya Wanaume held a public
protest against gays and lesbians and demanded that the United Nations create
an “International Anti-Gay” day. In case you are wondering who these people
are, this is the same group of men’s right activists who go by the name “Men
Against Women Empowerment” (MAWE) who claimed that men turn to bestial sex
because women deny men conjugal rights. Thus, according to MAWE, a man will
have sex with a chicken because no woman would sleep with him. In case, they didn’t know, such an argument
does not fly in a court of law. Theirs is the sort of reasoning that demeans
and insults all men; that men are bestial to the point that they sleep with
animals in the absence of women. It’s truly ironic then, that they find it an
acceptable inevitability that a man can have sex with a chicken, but not with
another consenting adult.
President Yahya Jammeh of Gambia took it a step further. He
described gay people as “vermin, mosquitoes.” In the attempt to dehumanize
homosexuals, Jammeh reveals exactly what sort of inhuman leader he truly is.
Each time people call for the rights of a minority to be removed, infringed or
abused we speak more about the uncivilized nature of the larger society than
anything else. If, citizens really want to decide by law what sort of sex
should be legal then let us go to a referendum, complete with pictorial guides
on what positions we should vote for. That way, the majority of the population
can see for themselves exactly what sort of fantasies and infatuations their
leadership indulges in at their expense.